tell me what to do from scratch pls 😩

just tinted moisturizer and mascara in this pic

I bounce around walking around with this or more of a full face with brown eyeshadow, thought I finally found my look a few days ago. I've sometimes been guessed to be a few years older, like 2 or 3 or so, but now as of my 'new look' people on here are telling me I look thirty which is a whopping decade older than I am and not really what I'm going after lol.

soooo if you were my makeup artist, what look should you do that suits me but does not make me look like gen X?